老师，想请教你几个问题。。。

老师，想请教你几个问题。。。
我是位目前正在实习的心理辅导员。

Nw i facing a client who gt lot of problems like : interpersonal (he felt inferiority in front his frenz & lack of comunication), intrapersonal(scare to be married)and low self-esteem...felt inferiority of his external appearence..He hope that can bcome a great man one day..

Which prob should i focus first? so what can i help him? izzit using reality theory? got other methods such as game or personality test?

thx a lot..谢谢你。望你能给于指教...